#392. Dad , what are anti-goals?
This idea originated from Stoic philosophers. Instead of focusing on what you want to achieve, focus on what you want to avoid at all costs.
Values
#380. Dad, what is justice?
Author Omid Safi wrote, “Justice is love, embodied. We cannot speak of love without linking it to justice, nor of justice unless it is permeated […]
#368. Dad, is winning the most important thing?
Winning is not the only thing that matters — what you learn about yourself and life during the process, is far more important.
#359. Dad, how do I achieve my goals and focus on my values?
You have to do both. Otherwise, your goals will not have any value.
#357. Dad, what does it mean to be connected?
MLK explained it best: “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly.”
#342. Dad, can anger be useful?
Anger can be useful when it is used to defend the innocent.
#331. Dad, what is status anxiety?
It is the constant fear of being perceived as “unsuccessful” by society in terms of material wealth.
#311. Dad, sometimes I feel lost
You may feel lost, but you are not alone. Ask for help and let go of the idea that you have to make a perfect […]
#304. Dad, my finances are a mess.
Congratulations! You have taken the first step to acknowledging that you have a problem. The rest can be managed with a plan. Dad, My Finances […]
#297. Dad, is personal finance all about money?
Personal finance is about values, habits and mindset and not only about money.
#295, Dad, does money determine my worth?
Your value and worth is not dictated by your money. Your worth is determined by your character.
#294. Dad, what should I NOT feel guilty about?
Staying true to your values, staying away from toxic people, and embracing change.
#293. Dad, what is financial puberty?
The discovery of your financial values relative to your financial independence.
#290. Dad, is there one standard for “success?”
We must define “success” on your own terms. Otherwise, society will decide for us – and we will always fall short.
#289. Dad, tell me about judgment.
No matter what you do or say, you will be judged. So, why not be true yourself.
#285. Dad, tell me about Remembrance Day
Remembrance day is a day to reflect and show gratitude to all those who served to protect us.
#272. Dad, what is moral elevation?
The feeling you get when you witness a virtuous act that makes you want to act virtuous too. Moral Elevation: That Fuzzy Feeling of Being […]
#270. Dad, who should I have as a mentor?
Somebody you can trust, has high integrity and has reliable judgement.
#260. Dad, how do I get what I want?
One way, is to want less. Another way is to first help other people get what they want.
#257. Dad, when do values matter?
Values matter the most when you really feel conflicted.
#256. Dad, what does thanksgiving mean to you?
Thanksgiving is my favourite holiday. It is a time for gratitude, reflection and celebration
#167. Dad, I try to learn as much as I can from others.
It is just as important to learn what not to do from others as much as what to do.
#161. Dad, how important is rest?
Rest is a necessary ingredient for your mind and body. Rest is not given to us, we have to take it.
#144. Dad, what is courage?
Courage is an act of humanity, of choosing to take any action that is risky because it demands vulnerability and curiosity.
#142. Dad, is it OK that my values about money and spending are different from my friends?
Personal values and spending habits are unique to everybody. Spend based on your personal values.
#120. Dad, I don’t have time to understand my personal finances.
What I’m hearing is that “I don’t want to make the time.” If it’s important to you then you will find the time.
#107. Dad, why do we have to keep learning?
Socrates believed he knew nothing and kept learning and discovering. We also know nothing. So, we have to keep learning.
#101. Dad, how do I continuously grow, develop and get better?
Become self aware about your inadequacies and areas of development.
#100. Dad, what is identity confusion?
When your spending behaviour contradicts your values and goals.
#87. Dad, what is a financially mature adult?
Somebody who has insight into the possible consequences of money decisions and the impact on their family and long term financial freedom.
#83. Dad, is money bad?
Money is not good or bad. It is merely a vessel that allows us to live our lives according to our values.
#79. Dad, when making decisions, should I always factor in money?
Money should not be the driving factor in every decision you make. If it is, you will feel constantly stuck.
#72. Dad, what is minimalism?
Minimalism is less about the quantity of items you have and more about the quality of life you create.
#66. Dad, what do you expect to achieve each day?
Each day I plan to live a little better, love a little bigger and breathe a little easier.
#65. Dad, is the goal to reduce debt?
Debt is not a goal. Debt is what is standing in the way.
#62. Dad, why should I not keep up with the Joneses?
If you are emulating what someone else does or has, you aren’t taking your own values and goals into account.
#57. Dad, what is financial awareness?
Recognizing the state of your finances when making financial decisions by not allowing your emotions to get the better of you.