#254. Dad, tell me about failing
Failing is a necessary step to success. Failing does not make you a failure.
Life Advice
#251. Dad, what are the three most harmful addictions?
Heroin, carbohydrates and a monthly salary.
#243. Dad, are rules sacred?
Rules are not sacred, principles are.
#241. Dad, what is the meaning of life?
DAD: Whatever you want it to be.
#237. Dad, it is so tempting to buy stuff
DAD: Advertisers trick you into wanting stuff. Ignore the noise.
#231. Dad. What is your favourite Carl Jung quote?
DAD: “The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.”
#223. Dad, what is the Pygmalion Effect?
DAD: The Pygmalion Effect is how the power of positive thinking can result in positive outcomes—just by changing your perspective.
#211. Dad, what is a “reverse bucket list?”
DAD: A “reverse bucket list” reminds you of what you have already done and makes you feel inspired instead of overwhelmed.
#179. Dad, do our basic needs ever change?
DAD: Our basic needs never change. The need to be seen and appreciated, the need to belong and the need for a little love!
#172. Dad, life is unfair.
DAD: At the end of each day, breathe deeply, appreciate where you are, and see the value in what you have.
#171. Dad, what is your favourite Lao Tzu quote?
DAD: “Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.”
#149. Dad, tell me about experimentation
Experimentation is a necessary ingredient for success. They allow you to make mistakes and shoot for the moon.
#132. Dad, is it important to have structure in your day?
DAD: Structure is important to get things done. But, set aside unstructured “thinking time” in your schedule.
#130. Dad, why should I keep a diary?
DAD: A diary helps you to pay attention to your life and it’s a good place to keep bad ideas.
#124. Dad, tell me about getting old
DAD: As you age, you’ll learn to value your time, genuine relationships, meaningful work, and peace of mind
#118. Dad, what is the external comparison trap?
Comparison makes us feel as if life is a race. The only benefit to comparison is inspiration.
#116. Dad, how do I beat procrastination?
DAD: Get better at two things: Self- Management and Willpower
#112. Dad, what is the difference between thinking and doing?
Thinking is valueless, unless it leads to doing.
#96. What is #2 rule of money?
DAD: Strive to save 10 to 20 percent of your income.
#88. Dad, can you give me advice on getting my shit together?
DAD: I suggest you don’t spend too much time on things that don’t matter and spend it with people that do.
#78. Dad, what do I do when I find myself directionless?
DAD: When in doubt choose flexibility. Visualize where you want to go and seed your life with the opportunity for change.
#77. Dad, tell me about work.
Avoid busy work—enjoy focused work instead.
#45. Dad, is money a valuable goal?
Money should never be the goal. Money is a tool to help you accomplish your goals.
#42. Dad, what is the “damn I’m happy stage”?
It is called fulfillment. You reach this stage when you discover who you are by supporting yourself doing work you love.
#33.Dad, why should I make my bed first thing in the morning?
By making your bed in the morning, you knock-off your first accomplishment of the day. This puts you in a “winning” mindset.