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#387. Dad, what causes mistakes?

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Mistakes are are often the result of an obsession with perfection

#385. Dad, what does “eat the frog” mean?

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“Eat the frog” is a metaphor for tackling your most challenging tasks of the day – the ones you are most likely to procrastinate on. […]

#371. Dad, what does perfection look like?

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No need to understand what perfection looks like, focus on what better looks like.

#363. Dad, how do we become who we are?

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We become what we expose ourselves to – who we hang out with, what we listen to and how we define success.

#356. Dad, what does it mean to be a person of colour?

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It is exhausting being a person of colour. Beyond discrimination, psychological and social stress are long lasting and damaging.

#325. Dad, should I only plan for the future?

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Designating time to plan for the future is essential, as is reflecting on and learning from the past.

#322. Dad, tell me about new beginnings.

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A new beginning may be the thing you need to find purpose.

#321. Dad, should I only focus on my goals?

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Focus on growth rather than goals. Have a growth mindset and the goals will follow.

#320. Dad, I have to deal with so many problems?

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Think a little less about managing your problems and a little more about managing your mindset.

#319. How do I build my mental strength muscles?

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Mental strength is built through small, daily victories. It’s the individual choices we make daily that build our “mental strength” muscles. 

#318. Dad, should I react to every conversation?

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Silent acknowledgment works better when people are venting.

#308. Dad, should I care what people think of my choices?

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Become good at not caring what irrelevant people think about you. Decide who belongs in the relevant bunch.

#305. Dad, sometimes I feel like I have no direction.

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Having no direction is an excuse to get one step closer to a more fulfilling life.

#302. Dad, is it OK to buy inexpensive stuff?

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Justifying purchases with a low sticker price is faulty logic. Eventually, our stuff will get the last laugh with the silent stress of a cluttered […]

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#288. Dad, tell me about failure and self-worth.

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Failure does not determine your self-worth. Only you do.

#287. Dad, is change necessary?

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Yes. Without change, there would be no butterflies.

#283. Dad, do I only improve by moving forward?

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Eliminating mistakes is an under-appreciated way to improve.

#275. Dad, what is a “peaceful life?”

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A “peaceful life” is the removal of ongoing stress.

#267. Dad, what causes unhappiness?

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Our own unrealistic expectations of ourselves and others makes us unhappy.

#254. Dad, tell me about failing

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Failing is a necessary step to success. Failing does not make you a failure.

#251. Dad, what are the three most harmful addictions?

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Heroin, carbohydrates and a monthly salary.

Dad, are rules sacred?

#243. Dad, are rules sacred?

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Rules are not sacred, principles are.

#241. Dad, what is the meaning of life?

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DAD: Whatever you want it to be.

#237. Dad, it is so tempting to buy stuff

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DAD: Advertisers trick you into wanting stuff. Ignore the noise.

#231. Dad. What is your favourite Carl Jung quote?

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DAD: “The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.”

#223. Dad, what is the Pygmalion Effect?

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DAD:  The Pygmalion Effect is how the power of positive thinking can result in positive outcomes—just by changing your perspective. 

#211. Dad, what is a “reverse bucket list?”

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DAD: A “reverse bucket list” reminds you of what you have already done and makes you feel inspired instead of overwhelmed.

#199. Dad, what is “background stress?”

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Background” stress is a constant and continuous level of stress brought about by too many life demands

#172. Dad, life is unfair.

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At the end of each day, breathe deeply, appreciate where you are, and see the value in what you have.

#171. Dad, what is your favourite Lao Tzu quote?

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“Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.”

#169. Dad, tell me about self compassion

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Finding compassion for others is easy but finding compassion for yourself is much harder.

#166. Dad, how do I take control of my priorities?

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Try to create a life of choice around things that are important to you.

#164. Dad, tell me about reading

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Reading allows you to see the world more clearly.

#149. Dad, tell me about experimentation

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Experimentation is a necessary ingredient for success. It allows you to make mistakes and shoot for the moon.

#132. Dad, is it important to have structure in your day?

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Having structure is important to get things done. Setting aside unstructured “thinking time” is just as important.

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#131. Dad, is the grass actually greener on the other side?

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Who cares what colour the grass is on the other side. Live in the moment and embrace the present.

#130. Dad, why should I keep a diary?

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A diary helps you to pay attention to your life and it’s a good place to keep bad ideas.

#125. Dad, there is so much I still have to figure out

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It’s not always about trying to figure things out. Sometimes it’s about allowing things to reveal themselves.

#124. Dad, tell me about getting old

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As you age, you’ll learn to value your time, genuine relationships, meaningful work, and peace of mind.

#118. Dad, what is the external comparison trap?

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Comparison makes us feel as if life is a race. The only benefit to comparison is inspiration.

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