#305. Dad, sometimes I feel like I have no direction.
Having no direction is an excuse to get one step closer to a more fulfilling life.
Life Advice
#302. Dad, is it OK to buy inexpensive stuff?
Justifying purchases with a low sticker price is faulty logic. Eventually, our stuff will get the last laugh with the silent stress of a cluttered […]
#288. Dad, tell me about failure and self-worth.
Failure does not determine your self-worth. Only you do.
#287. Dad, is change necessary?
Yes. Without change, there would be no butterflies.
#283. Dad, do I only improve by moving forward?
Eliminating mistakes is an under-appreciated way to improve.
#275. Dad, what is a “peaceful life?”
A “peaceful life” is the removal of ongoing stress.
#267. Dad, what causes unhappiness?
Our own unrealistic expectations of ourselves and others makes us unhappy.
#254. Dad, tell me about failing
Failing is a necessary step to success. Failing does not make you a failure.
#251. Dad, what are the three most harmful addictions?
Heroin, carbohydrates and a monthly salary.
#243. Dad, are rules sacred?
Rules are not sacred, principles are.
#241. Dad, what is the meaning of life?
DAD: Whatever you want it to be.
#237. Dad, it is so tempting to buy stuff
DAD: Advertisers trick you into wanting stuff. Ignore the noise.
#231. Dad. What is your favourite Carl Jung quote?
DAD: “The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.”
#223. Dad, what is the Pygmalion Effect?
DAD: The Pygmalion Effect is how the power of positive thinking can result in positive outcomes—just by changing your perspective.
#211. Dad, what is a “reverse bucket list?”
DAD: A “reverse bucket list” reminds you of what you have already done and makes you feel inspired instead of overwhelmed.
#179. Dad, do our basic needs ever change?
DAD: Our basic needs never change. The need to be seen and appreciated, the need to belong and the need for a little love!
#172. Dad, life is unfair.
DAD: At the end of each day, breathe deeply, appreciate where you are, and see the value in what you have.
#171. Dad, what is your favourite Lao Tzu quote?
DAD: “Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.”
#149. Dad, tell me about experimentation
Experimentation is a necessary ingredient for success. They allow you to make mistakes and shoot for the moon.
#132. Dad, is it important to have structure in your day?
DAD: Structure is important to get things done. But, set aside unstructured “thinking time” in your schedule.
#130. Dad, why should I keep a diary?
DAD: A diary helps you to pay attention to your life and it’s a good place to keep bad ideas.
#124. Dad, tell me about getting old
DAD: As you age, you’ll learn to value your time, genuine relationships, meaningful work, and peace of mind
#118. Dad, what is the external comparison trap?
Comparison makes us feel as if life is a race. The only benefit to comparison is inspiration.
#116. Dad, how do I beat procrastination?
DAD: Get better at two things: Self- Management and Willpower
#112. Dad, what is the difference between thinking and doing?
Thinking is valueless, unless it leads to doing.