#392. Dad , what are anti-goals?
This idea originated from Stoic philosophers. Instead of focusing on what you want to achieve, focus on what you want to avoid at all costs.
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#366. Dad, what is intellectual humility?
The art of questioning your own biases, beliefs and experiences.
#363. Dad, how do we become who we are?
We become what we expose ourselves to – who we hang out with, what we listen to and how we define success.
#326. Dad, does success make anxiety and depression better?
Success is not a cure for anxiety or depression. Sometimes it makes it worse.
#292. Dad, I am pretty hard on myself when I fail.
It’s interesting that when others fail, we admire them for trying. Yet, when we fail, we beat ourselves up.
#290. Dad, is there one standard for “success?”
We must define “success” on your own terms. Otherwise, society will decide for us – and we will always fall short.
#280. Dad, what is specificity?
Specificity is the ability to be specific about what you want, what you say and what you do. This forces clarity.
#278. Dad, do I need external validation to recognize my success?
Self-esteem and self-worth only come from the inside and other people’s validation should not matter
#263. Dad, I have difficulty saying “No”
When you say “NO”, you are saving space for “YES”.
#254. Dad, tell me about failing
Failing is a necessary step to success. Failing does not make you a failure.
#245. Dad. What is the imposter syndrome?
The idea that you’ve only succeeded due to luck, and not because of your talent or qualifications.
#243. Dad, are rules sacred?
Rules are not sacred, principles are.
#241. Dad, what is the meaning of life?
DAD: Whatever you want it to be.
#231. Dad. What is your favourite Carl Jung quote?
DAD: “The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are.”
#223. Dad, what is the Pygmalion Effect?
DAD: The Pygmalion Effect is how the power of positive thinking can result in positive outcomes—just by changing your perspective.
#218. Dad, what is eudaimonia?
It is a Greek word which means the highest human good – the good life.
#214. Dad, some days are so hard
DAD: Your track record for getting through hard days is 100% so far.
#195. Dad, do people become suddenly successful?
Most successful people develop good habits over time and perfect their habits. These habits have made them successful.
#193. Dad, are smart people financially wealthy?
There is no correlation between high levels of intelligence and high levels of financial wealth.
#192. Dad, what do I do after I make a mistake?
Mistakes are normal. Focus on what you need to do to get better and move on.
#190. Dad, sometimes I take the easy way out
Whenever you take the easy way in favour of what’s right, you slowly destroy your character.
#177. Dad, I think I am successful because I achieve my goals.
If you view life as merely achieving goals, you will have the illusion of success.
#175. Dad, what does “Dulcius Ex Asperis” mean?
This phrase means “Sweeter after difficulties” It reminds you that nothing good comes easily.
#156. Dad, many of my plans don’t turn out as expected
Some of the best things in life happen unexpectedly, and in spite of our failed plans.
#146. Dad, is education what you learn in school only?
No. Education is the sum of your total knowledge. Everything from tying your shoes to understanding where you spend your money.
#145. Dad, what is a moonshot?
A moonshot is a big goal. It is a long-term endeavour with the hope of success, but also the awareness that not every outcome lies within our control.
#137. Dad, should I fear the unknown?
The unknown should not feared. It is merely something you’ve yet to experience.
#129. Dad, is a high income a guarantee that you will retire rich?
There are no guarantees. Make sure you spend less than you earn and save for the future.
#113. Dad, what is progress?
Progress is any action that moves you in the direction of becoming a better, kinder human being.
#73. Dad, what is progress?
Progress is about getting better every day. Success comes after that.
#70. Dad, what is the principle of dangerous perfection?
If the only acceptable result is perfection, you’re setting yourself up for failure.
#69. Dad, does having a budget mean no fun and all work.
Definitely not. A budget is a plan, so you can enjoy your favourite things responsibly.
#53. Dad, tell me about success and failure.
Failure is the best teacher because it tells you what is not working. Success never shows you what you are doing wrong.
#48. Dad, what is success?
Success is the progressive realization of your goals.
#43. Dad, why is complacency dangerous?
Complacency forces you to stand still and not grow. The antidote to complacency is novelty and experimentation.
#33.Dad, why should I make my bed first thing in the morning?
By making your bed in the morning, you knock-off your first accomplishment of the day. This puts you in a “winning” mindset.