#180. Dad, I feel that I have to be in control.

SONEPUR, INDIA - NOVEMBER 15: 13 month old elephant Rania stretches her trunk out to touch the nose of her mahut during the Sonepur Mela on November 15, 2011 in Sonepur near Patna, India. The cattle fair, held in the Indian state of Bihar, has its origins during ancient times, when people traded elephants and horses across the auspicious river Ganges. The mela used to attract traders from places as distant as Central Asia. It is one of Asia's largest cattle fairs and lasts for a fortnight. (Photo by Daniel Berehulak/Getty Images)

 If you want to be in control, start by letting go of control and see if things start to take care of themselves.